The 'Wishes and Feelings' versus the 'Needs' of Children in Family Proceedings

[postlink]http://cafcasscourts.blogspot.com/2010/06/age-of-child-and-their-wishes-and.html[/postlink]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=INeWYvDcUYIendofvid
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Which is more important the wishes or needs of a child?
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